At Parcion Private Wealth, we have years of experience working exclusively with business owners and their families to support both their personal and financial goals. We understand that each family business has unique dynamics that must be navigated and balanced. There can be several decision-makers, which can lead to unwanted and detrimental conflict if not aligned. To avoid familial issues as much as possible—and navigate them when they inevitably occur—owners of family businesses need to adopt a thoughtful and calculated approach. The right balance between family harmony and business realities must be struck.

To see why, consider one story of a patriarch who runs a company worth north of $300 million. Seeking to involve his sons—both of whom were top managers at other firms—at a high level, he offered them senior executive positions in the company as well as positions on the firm's governing committee. They accepted.

But problems soon arose as the sons' expectations and interests clashed with the patriarch's—and with each other's. The three family members began subtly sabotaging each other's efforts, resulting in the business suffering continually weaker financial performance each quarter. Within a few years, it was outright war—with the sons openly fighting with their father, each other, and the company's top brass.

Ultimately, the situation became untenable. The father, after reaffirming his love for his children and his deep concern for their welfare and future, banished them from the business. They were no longer involved in any way with the management of assets or any other aspect of running the operation.

The good news: In less than a year, under the sole direction of the patriarch, the company was once again doing extremely well. But the rough road could have been avoided with some thoughtful planning and expectation-setting in advance.

BEING THOUGHTFUL

Conflicts among family members who are involved in business together are bound to occur. And there are many ways to handle such conflicts when they arise. For some successful entrepreneurs, interventions led by family business coaches are successful. Different forms of conflict management consulting services can be used. The patriarch in the example above obviously went in a different direction.

But whatever the specific situation, if you want to have a highly successful family business, the answer is often to take a calculated approach to decision-making.

One way we see successful family business leaders do that is to look at business decisions through the lens of their family values and beliefs as well as their professional obligations (as they see them). To accomplish this yourself, it is very important for you to be able to step back and appraise situations, people, and other factors nonjudgmentally to derive a workable solution that makes the key people involved happy enough to move forward.

VALUES AND ECONOMICS

You have to take a lot into account when making decisions affecting your family, your wealth and your business—especially when they're all tied together. What's more, the emotional ties you have with family members can potentially override your best and most rational financial and strategic business abilities.

The key to thoughtful decision-making, then, is to understand how your values impact your decision-making concerning your family business along with your ability to consider the economics of a situation—and to then balance values with financial implications.

The following formula puts thoughtful decision-making into perspective:

Family Values + Calculated Economics = Thoughtful Decision Making

Let's look at each component in more detail.

FAMILY VALUES

There are some classic family business concerns that successful entrepreneurs often experience—such as balancing family priorities, issues and interests with business considerations. Family values and intentions are typically built into the expectations for the company and those running it.

Certainly, a core asset of family businesses is very often the family itself—and children can be great sources of strength and creativity. However, there are times when family bonds can prove to be detrimental to both the success of the company and the harmony of the family. If these matters are ignored entirely or dealt with poorly, the business and the family will likely continue to suffer.

For example, we often see two scenarios in which children can be detrimental to the success of a business:

• WELL-INTENTIONED BUT DYSFUNCTIONAL. The good news is that most of the time, when children are causing problems in a family business, they're not actually trying to do so. We generally find that family members intend to be positive and helpful—they're not seeking to create family business strife. Entrepreneurs can usually identify family members who are dragging down the business. Typically, these family members are not deceptive or conniving but are simply out of their league.
• BAD SEEDS. Bad seeds are family members—often children and other eventual heirs—who, in an almost Machiavellian manner, exploit the business for personal gain to the detriment of other family members. Although subterfuge is regularly involved, in time everyone knows what is going on—and a great deal of acrimony tends to ensue. Most times, the business seriously suffers as the family tries to hash out the conflicts. Even though everyone would like the family to work together in a supportive and constructive way, that just does not happen in situations where there are bad seeds. These family members are very self-absorbed and commonly feel entitled. Consequently, they tend to act in ways that damage relationships and the functioning of the company. Further complicating these situations, most entrepreneurs and other family members have a hard time reining in family members who are disruptive and oppressive.

Important: Entrepreneurs need to recognize that even where their values are not inhibiting the optimal financial performance of the family business, they can still make poor choices. Many entrepreneurs do not think through the financial implications of many of their decisions—which almost always leads to trouble.

CALCULATED ECONOMICS

There are a number of approaches to making financially smarter decisions in a family business. One of the most effective, of course, is to run the numbers. It is logical to write pro formas—formal financial statements—for each venture within your firm. For each major initiative, you can be well served by developing a set of financials and using these calculations to help drive and benchmark the endeavor.

In this context, you can think of pro formas as akin to military strategies. Before embarking on any initiative, a thoughtful leader will explore all of his or her options and possible outcomes, so an informed decision can be made when changes in direction are inevitably necessary. Very few things unfold exactly as anticipated, and running the numbers allows you to better adapt on the fly to new circumstances and navigate turbulence.

Pro formas provide entrepreneurs with a clear understanding of the financial aspects of prospective decisions. They might project over several quarters key metrics such as (but not limited to):

• Revenue (and each source)
• Unit sales
• Cost per unit
• Rent, labor, payroll and other costs
• Gross margins
• Capitalized vs. variable expenses

Combining these financial assessments with your values results in thoughtful decisions.

BALANCING ACT

Ultimately, family business owners must achieve the right balance between their values and the need to be fiscally prudent. If these are misaligned, bad results may occur. Put too much weight on values at the expense of economics, and the business might fail to thrive—or even survive. Overemphasize money, and you might find that family members become disillusioned or outright hostile about the way the business is being run. And if that gets bad enough, it can hurt the company's fortunes.

As a family office, Parcion provides world-class resources to our community. We partner with family business owners to preserve their legacy while positioning themselves for success in the years and decades to come. We understand that each family has unique values, economics, and relationships. Our approach to thoughtful decision-making offers a roadmap for navigating the intricacies of family businesses, ensuring that family values and financial viability coexist harmoniously.


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